A regex is good for matching the general format but I think you should move parsing to the Date class, e.g.:
function parseDate(str) {
var m = str.match(/^(\d{1,2})\/(\d{1,2})\/(\d{4})$/);
return (m) ? new Date(m[3], m[2]-1, m[1]) : null;
}
Now you can use this function to check for valid dates; however, if you need to actually validate without rolling (e.g. "31/2/2010" doesn't automatically roll to "3/3/2010") then you've got another problem.
[Edit] If you also want to validate without rolling then you could add a check to compare against the original string to make sure it is the same date:
function parseDate(str) {
var m = str.match(/^(\d{1,2})\/(\d{1,2})\/(\d{4})$/)
, d = (m) ? new Date(m[3], m[2]-1, m[1]) : null
, nonRolling = (d&&(str==[d.getDate(),d.getMonth()+1,d.getFullYear()].join('/')));
return (nonRolling) ? d : null;
}
[Edit2] If you want to match against zero-padded dates (e.g. "08/08/2013") then you could do something like this:
function parseDate(str) {
function pad(x){return (((''+x).length==2) ? '' : '0') + x; }
var m = str.match(/^(\d{1,2})\/(\d{1,2})\/(\d{4})$/)
, d = (m) ? new Date(m[3], m[2]-1, m[1]) : null
, matchesPadded = (d&&(str==[pad(d.getDate()),pad(d.getMonth()+1),d.getFullYear()].join('/')))
, matchesNonPadded = (d&&(str==[d.getDate(),d.getMonth()+1,d.getFullYear()].join('/')));
return (matchesPadded || matchesNonPadded) ? d : null;
}
However, it will still fail for inconsistently padded dates (e.g. "8/08/2013").