You can get this information from the data cache.
For example, log them to the console (firebug, ie8):
console.dir( $('#someElementId').data('events') );
or iterate them:
jQuery.each($('#someElementId').data('events'), function(i, event){
jQuery.each(event, function(i, handler){
console.log( handler.toString() );
});
});
Another way is you can use the following bookmarklet but obviously this does not help at runtime.