You must use the column names and then set the values to insert (both ? marks):
//insert 1st row
String inserting = "INSERT INTO employee(emp_name ,emp_address) values(?,?)";
System.out.println("insert " + inserting);//
PreparedStatement ps = con.prepareStatement(inserting);
ps.setString(1, "hans");
ps.setString(2, "germany");
ps.executeUpdate();