If you want to get any parent by any child control you can use this code, and when you find the UserControl/Form/Panel or others you can call funnctions or set/get values:
Control myControl= this;
while (myControl.Parent != null)
{
if (myControl.Parent!=null)
{
myControl = myControl.Parent;
if (myControl.Name== "MyCustomUserControl")
{
((MyCustomUserControl)myControl).lblTitle.Text = "FOUND IT";
}
}
}