You can obtain all jQuery events using $._data($('[selector]')[0],'events'); change [selector] to what you need.
There is a plugin that gather all events attached by jQuery called eventsReport.
Also i write my own plugin that do this with better formatting.
But anyway it seems we can't gather events added by addEventListener method. May be we can wrap addEventListener call to store events added after our wrap call.
It seems the best way to see events added to an element with dev tools.
But you will not see delegated events there. So there we need jQuery eventsReport.
UPDATE: NOW We CAN see events added by addEventListener method SEE RIGHT ANSWER TO THIS QUESTION.