My approach is that I first create a list of indices, which should get deleted. Afterwards I loop over the indices and remove the items from the initial list. This looks like this:
var messageList = ...;
// Restrict your list to certain criteria
var customMessageList = messageList.FindAll(m => m.UserId == someId);
if (customMessageList != null && customMessageList.Count > 0)
{
// Create list with positions in origin list
List<int> positionList = new List<int>();
foreach (var message in customMessageList)
{
var position = messageList.FindIndex(m => m.MessageId == message.MessageId);
if (position != -1)
positionList.Add(position);
}
// To be able to remove the items in the origin list, we do it backwards
// so that the order of indices stays the same
positionList = positionList.OrderByDescending(p => p).ToList();
foreach (var position in positionList)
{
messageList.RemoveAt(position);
}
}