So, I had this code:
<div class="dropdown-select-wrapper" *ngIf="contentData">
<button mat-stroked-button [disableRipple]="true" class="mat-button" (click)="openSelect()" [ngClass]="{'only-icon': !contentData?.buttonText?.length}">
<i *ngIf="contentData.iconClassInfo" class="dropdown-icon {{contentData.iconClassInfo.name}}"></i>
<span class="button-text" *ngIf="contentData.buttonText">{{contentData.buttonText}}</span>
</button>
<mat-select class="small-dropdown-select" [formControl]="theFormControl" #buttonSelect (selectionChange)="onSelect(buttonSelect.selected)" (click)="$event.stopPropagation();">
<mat-option *ngFor="let option of options" [ngClass]="{'selected-option': buttonSelect.selected?.value === option[contentData.optionsStructure.valName]}" [disabled]="buttonSelect.selected?.value === option[contentData.optionsStructure.valName] && contentData.optionSelectedWillDisable" [value]="option[contentData.optionsStructure.valName]">
{{option[contentData.optionsStructure.keyName]}}
</mat-option>
</mat-select>
</div>
Here I was using standalone formControl, and I was getting the error we are talking about, which made no sense for me, since I wasn't working with formgroups or formarrays... it only disappeared when I added the *ngIf to the select it self, so is not being used before it actually exists. That's what solved the issue in my case.
<mat-select class="small-dropdown-select" [formControl]="theFormControl" #buttonSelect (selectionChange)="onSelect(buttonSelect.selected)" (click)="$event.stopPropagation();" *ngIf="theFormControl">
<mat-option *ngFor="let option of options" [ngClass]="{'selected-option': buttonSelect.selected?.value === option[contentData.optionsStructure.valName]}" [disabled]="buttonSelect.selected?.value === option[contentData.optionsStructure.valName] && contentData.optionSelectedWillDisable" [value]="option[contentData.optionsStructure.valName]">
{{option[contentData.optionsStructure.keyName]}}
</mat-option>
</mat-select>