For td elements line-height will successfully allow you to resize the border-height as SPrince mentioned.
For other elements such as list items, you can control the border height with line-height and the height of the actual element with margin-top and margin-bottom.
Here is a working example of both: http://jsfiddle.net/byronj/gLcqu6mg/
An example with list items:
li {
list-style: none;
padding: 0 10px;
display: inline-block;
border-right: 1px solid #000;
line-height: 5px;
margin: 20px 0;
}
<ul>
<li>cats</li>
<li>dogs</li>
<li>birds</li>
<li>swine!</li>
</ul>