One simple solution to this is to replace the item being changed in the ObservableCollection which notifies the collection of the changed item. In the sample code snippet below Artists is the ObservableCollection and artist is an item of the type in the ObservableCollection:
var index = Artists.IndexOf(artist);
Artists.RemoveAt(index);
artist.IsFollowed = true; // change something in the item
Artists.Insert(index, artist);