If you're like me and tried a few of these methods and are stuck at the point that you have the control in the toolbox and can draw it on the form but it disappears from the form and puts it down in the components, then simply edit the designer and add the following in the appropriate area of InitializeComponent() to make it visible:
this.Controls.Add(this.reportViewer1);
or
[ContainerControl].Controls.Add(this.reportViewer1);
You'll also need to make adjustments to the location and size manually after you've added the control.
Not a great answer for sure, but if you're stuck and just need to get work done for now until you have more time to figure it out, it should help.