For relative paths, here's what I did. I am aware of the age of this question, I simply want to contribute a simpler answer that works in the majority of cases:
Say you have a path like this:
"path/to/file/folder"
For some reason, Linux-built executables made in eclipse work fine with this. However, windows gets very confused if given a path like this to work with!
As stated above there are several ways to get the current path to the executable, but the easiest way I find works a charm in the majority of cases is appending this to the FRONT of your path:
"./path/to/file/folder"
Just adding "./" should get you sorted! :) Then you can start loading from whatever directory you wish, so long as it is with the executable itself.
EDIT: This won't work if you try to launch the executable from code::blocks if that's the development environment being used, as for some reason, code::blocks doesn't load stuff right... :D
EDIT2: Some new things I have found is that if you specify a static path like this one in your code (Assuming Example.data is something you need to load):
"resources/Example.data"
If you then launch your app from the actual directory (or in Windows, you make a shortcut, and set the working dir to your app dir) then it will work like that. Keep this in mind when debugging issues related to missing resource/file paths. (Especially in IDEs that set the wrong working dir when launching a build exe from the IDE)