you have to have a reference to the form object in order to access its elements
the elements have to be declared public in order for another class to access them
don't do this - your class has to know too much about how your form is implemented; do not expose form controls outside of the form class
instead, make public properties on your form to get/set the values you are interested in
post more details of what you want and why, it sounds like you may be heading off in a direction that is not consistent with good encapsulation practices