You need this:
Replace Me with this.parent, but you need to set parent before you show that form.
Private Sub ÜberToolStripMenuItem_Click(ByVal sender As System.Object, ByVal e As System.EventArgs) Handles ÜberToolStripMenuItem.Click
'About.StartPosition = FormStartPosition.Manual ' !!!!!
About.Location = New Point(Me.Location.X + Me.Width / 2 - About.Width / 2, Me.Location.Y + Me.Height / 2 - About.Height / 2)
About.Show()
End Sub