A simple solution is to wrap the query into a subselect with the ORDER statement first and applying the GROUP BY later:
SELECT * FROM (
SELECT `timestamp`, `fromEmail`, `subject`
FROM `incomingEmails`
ORDER BY `timestamp` DESC
) AS tmp_table GROUP BY LOWER(`fromEmail`)
This is similar to using the join but looks much nicer.
Using non-aggregate columns in a SELECT with a GROUP BY clause is non-standard. MySQL will generally return the values of the first row it finds and discard the rest. Any ORDER BY clauses will only apply to the returned column value, not to the discarded ones.
IMPORTANT UPDATE Selecting non-aggregate columns used to work in practice but should not be relied upon. Per the MySQL documentation "this is useful primarily when all values in each nonaggregated column not named in the GROUP BY are the same for each group. The server is free to choose any value from each group, so unless they are the same, the values chosen are indeterminate."
As of 5.7.5 ONLY_FULL_GROUP_BY is enabled by default so non-aggregate columns cause query errors (ER_WRONG_FIELD_WITH_GROUP)
As @mikep points out below the solution is to use ANY_VALUE() from 5.7 and above
See http://www.cafewebmaster.com/mysql-order-sort-group https://dev.mysql.com/doc/refman/5.6/en/group-by-handling.html https://dev.mysql.com/doc/refman/5.7/en/group-by-handling.html https://dev.mysql.com/doc/refman/5.7/en/miscellaneous-functions.html#function_any-value