[c#] Override standard close (X) button in a Windows Form

Either override the OnFormClosing or register for the event FormClosing.

This is an example of overriding the OnFormClosing function in the derived form:

protected override void OnFormClosing(FormClosingEventArgs e)
{
   e.Cancel = true;
}

This is an example of the handler of the event to stop the form from closing which can be in any class:

private void FormClosing(object sender,FormClosingEventArgs e)
{  
   e.Cancel = true;
}

To get more advanced, check the CloseReason property on the FormClosingEventArgs to ensure the appropriate action is performed. You might want to only do the alternative action if the user tries to close the form.