From RFC 7034:
Wildcards or lists to declare multiple domains in one ALLOW-FROM statement are not permitted
So,
How do I set the X-Frame-Options: ALLOW-FROM to support more than a single domain?
You can't. As a workaround you can use different URLs for different partners. For each URL you can use it's own X-Frame-Options
value. For example:
partner iframe URL ALLOW-FROM
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Facebook fb.yoursite.com facebook.com
VK.COM vk.yoursite.com vk.com
For yousite.com
you can just use X-Frame-Options: deny
.
BTW, for now Chrome (and all webkit-based browsers) does not support ALLOW-FROM
statements at all.