[sql-server] Unable to connect to SQL Server instance remotely

I’m trying to access the SQL Server instance on my VPS from SQL Server Management Studio on my local machine. It’s not working (the error I’m getting is:

A network-related or instance-specific error occurred while establishing a connection to SQL Server. The server was not found or was not accessible. Verify that the instance name is correct and that SQL Server is configured to allow remote connections.

I think this is because I need to configure the database engine to allow remote connections (correct me if I’m wrong!). So I’ve found this step-by-step guide to help me do that: http://www.linglom.com/2009/03/28/enable-remote-connection-on-sql-server-2008-express/ I’ve got to point 10 in the guide and I am now stuck! I don’t have SQL Server Management Studio installed on my VPS. Anyway, this has left me with two options:

1. Install SSMS
2. Find another way to do point 10 onwards in the guide without having SSMS installed

I tried installing SSMS on my VPS using the Web Platform Installer but it keeps failing. I don’t know why it’s failing because it doesn’t seem to give a reason why. Does anyone know how I could allow remote connections a different way?

The version of SQL Server installed on my VPS is SQL Server 2008 R2 Express.

Update:

I have tried to disable the firewall on both my laptop and VPS to see if it is a firewall issue. This made no difference to the error message.

Another Update:

Having now been able to install SSMS (I installed directly from the website rather than using the WPI), I have been able to check that the server is configured to allow remote connections (I went to SSMS, connected to the SQL Server instance, right-clicked on the connection, clicked Properties, went to the Connections tab. "Allow remote connections to this server" is already ticked).

SOLUTION

Thanks to everyone for helping me get to this solution! I've finally managed to get it to work! I followed Filip De Vos's advice and opened the ports in the Firewall on my VPS and then I received a different error message. This led me to investigate further and I found that I was using the wrong credentials to login! So I've set a password for the sa user and I've managed to login using that! Thanks again!

I know this is almost 1.5 years old, but I hope I can help someone with what I found.

I had built both a console app and a UWP app and my console connnected fine, but not my UWP. After hours of banging my head against the desk - if it's a intranet server hosting the SQL database you must enable "Private Networks (Client & Server)". It's under Package.appxmanifest and the Capabilities tab.Screenshot

Open mysql server configuration manager. Click SQL server services, on the right side choose the server you've created during installation(by default its state is stopped), click once on it and a play button should appear on the tool bar, then click on this play button, wait till its state turn into "running". Now your good. Switch back to the sql server management studio; switch the "server type" to "database engine" and "authentification" to "sql server authentification", the default login is "sa", and the password is your password that you've choose on creating the server. Now your good to work.

Disable the firewall and try to connect.

If that works, then enable the firewall and

Windows Defender Firewall -> Advanced Settings -> Inbound Rules(Right Click) -> New Rules -> Port -> Allow Port 1433 (Public and Private) -> Add

Do the same for Outbound Rules.

Then Try again.

If you have more than one Instances... Then make sure the PORT Numbers of all Instances are Unique and no one's PORT Number is 1433 except Default One...

1. Launch SQL Server Configuration Manager on your VPS.

2. Take a look at the SQL Server Network Configuration. Make sure that TCP/IP is enabled.

3. Next look at SQL Server Services. Make sure that SQL Server Browser is running.

4. Restart the service for your instance of SQL Server.

1. Open the SQL Server Configuration Manager.... 2.Check wheather TCP and UDP are running or not.... 3.If not running , Please enable them and also check the SQL Server Browser is running or not.If not running turn it on.....

2. Next you have to check which ports TCP and UDP is using. You have to open those ports from your windows firewall.....

5.Click here to see the steps to open a specific port in windows firewall....

6. Now SQL Server is ready to access over LAN.......

7. If you wan to access it remotely (over internet) , you have to do another job that is 'Port Forwarding'. You have open the ports TCP and UDP is using in SQL Server on your router. Now the configuration of routers are different. If you give me the details of your router (i. e name of the company and version ) , I can show you the steps how to forward a specific port.

I recently upgraded from SQL 2008 R2 to SQL 2012 and had a similar issue. The problem was the firewall, but more specifically the firewall rule for SQL SERVER. The custom rule was pointed to the prior version of SQL Server. Try this, open Windows Firewall>Advanced setting. Find the SQL Server Rule (it may have a custom name). Right-Click and go to properties, then Programs and Services Tab. If Programs-This program is selected, you should browse for the proper version of sqlserver.exe.

I had the same issue where my firewall was configured properly, TCP/IP was enabled in SQL Server Configuration Manager but I still could not access my SQL database from outside the computer hosting it. I found the solution was SQL Server Browser was disabled by default in Services (and no option was available to enable it in SQL Server Configuration Manager).

I enabled it by Control Panel > Administrative Tools > Services then double click on SQL Server Browser. In the General tab set the startup type to Automatic using the drop down list. Then go back into SQL Server Configuration Manager and check that the SQL Server Browser is enabled. Hope this helps.

In addition to configuring the SQL Server Browser service in Services.msc to Automatic, and starting the service, I had to enable TCP/IP in: SQL Server Configuration Manager | SQL Server Network Configuration | Protocols for [INSTANCE NAME] | TCP/IP