To enable mixed authentication you can change the following registry key:
HKLM\Software\Microsoft\Microsoft SQL Server\MSSQL.1\MSSQLServer\LoginMode
Update the value to 2 and restart the Sql Server service to allow mixed authentication. Note that MSSQL.1 might need to be updated to reflect the number of the SQL Server Instance you are attempting to change.
A reason for connection errors can be a virus scanner installed on the server which blocks sqlserver.exe
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Another reason can be that the SQL Server Browser service is not running. When this service is not running you cannot connect on named instances (when they are using dynamic ports).
It is also possible that Sql Server is not setup to listen to TCP connections and only allows named pipes.
Last but not least, the Windows firewall needs to allow connections to SQL Server
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As a last note, SqlLocalDB only supports named pipes, so you can not connect to it over the network.