If the variance of the input is statistically distributed (e.g. normal, log-normal, etc.) then reservoir sampling is a reasonable way of estimating percentiles/medians from an arbitrarily long stream of numbers.
int n = 0; // Running count of elements observed so far
#define SIZE 10000
int reservoir[SIZE];
while(streamHasData())
{
int x = readNumberFromStream();
if (n < SIZE)
{
reservoir[n++] = x;
}
else
{
int p = random(++n); // Choose a random number 0 >= p < n
if (p < SIZE)
{
reservoir[p] = x;
}
}
}
"reservoir" is then a running, uniform (fair), sample of all input - regardless of size. Finding the median (or any percentile) is then a straight-forward matter of sorting the reservoir and polling the interesting point.
Since the reservoir is fixed size, the sort can be considered to be effectively O(1) - and this method runs with both constant time and memory consumption.