You're going to need DATEPART here. You can concatenate the results of the DATEPART calls together.
To get the month abbreviations, you might be able to use DATENAME; if that doesn't work for you, you can use a CASE statement on the DATEPART.
DATEPART also works for the time field.
I can think of a couple of ways of getting the AM/PM indicator, including comparing new dates built via DATEPART or calculating the total seconds elapsed in the day and comparing that to known AM/PM thresholds.