When I want to display an empty date value I do this
if (sStrDate != "")
{
dateCreated.Value = DateTime.Parse(sStrDate);
}
else
{
dateCreated.CustomFormat = " ";
dateCreated.Format = DateTimePickerFormat.Custom;
}
Then when the user clicks on the control I have this:
private void dateControl_MouseDown(object sender, MouseEventArgs e)
{
((DateTimePicker)sender).Format = DateTimePickerFormat.Long;
}
This allows you to display and use an empty date value, but still allow the user to be able to change the date to something when they wish.
Keep in mind that sStrDate has already been validated as a valid date string.