Mongoose now supports this natively with findOneAndUpdate (calls MongoDB findAndModify).
The upsert = true option creates the object if it doesn't exist. defaults to false.
var query = {'username': req.user.username};
req.newData.username = req.user.username;
MyModel.findOneAndUpdate(query, req.newData, {upsert: true}, function(err, doc) {
if (err) return res.send(500, {error: err});
return res.send('Succesfully saved.');
});
In older versions Mongoose does not support these hooks with this method: