One thing I find that is often missing from these is an ability to look up row locks. At least on the larger databases I have worked on, row locks are not shown in pg_locks (if they were, pg_locks would be much, much larger and there isn't a real data type to show the locked row in that view properly).
I don't know that there is a simple solution to this but usually what I do is look at the table where the lock is waiting and search for rows where the xmax is less than the transaction id present there. That usually gives me a place to start, but it is a bit hands-on and not automation friendly.
Note that shows you uncommitted writes on rows on those tables. Once committed, the rows are not visible in the current snapshot. But for large tables, that is a pain.