To control a date validity under the following format :
YYYY/MM/DD or YYYY-MM-DD
I would recommand you tu use the following regular expression :
(((19|20)([2468][048]|[13579][26]|0[48])|2000)[/-]02[/-]29|((19|20)[0-9]{2}[/-](0[4678]|1[02])[/-](0[1-9]|[12][0-9]|30)|(19|20)[0-9]{2}[/-](0[1359]|11)[/-](0[1-9]|[12][0-9]|3[01])|(19|20)[0-9]{2}[/-]02[/-](0[1-9]|1[0-9]|2[0-8])))
Matches
2016-02-29 | 2012-04-30 | 2019/09/31
Non-Matches
2016-02-30 | 2012-04-31 | 2019/09/35
You can customise it if you wants to allow only '/' or '-' separators. This RegEx strictly controls the validity of the date and verify 28,30 and 31 days months, even leap years with 29/02 month.
Try it, it works very well and prevent your code from lot of bugs !
FYI : I made a variant for the SQL datetime. You'll find it there (look for my name) : Regular Expression to validate a timestamp
Feedback are welcomed :)