You can use SelectedValue:
<EditItemTemplate>
<asp:DropDownList ID="ddlPBXTypeNS"
runat="server"
Width="200px"
DataSourceID="YDS"
DataTextField="CaptionValue"
DataValueField="OID"
SelectedValue='<%# Bind("YourForeignKey") %>' />
<asp:YourDataSource ID="YDS" ...../>
</EditItemTemplate>