You can check the currently running transactions with
SELECT * FROM `information_schema`.`innodb_trx` ORDER BY `trx_started`
Your transaction should be one of the first, because it's the oldest in the list. Now just take the value from trx_mysql_thread_id
and send it the KILL
command:
KILL 1234;
If you're unsure which transaction is yours, repeat the first query very often and see which transactions persist.