Short answer: You should to use "weak references" between collections, using ObjectId properties:
References store the relationships between data by including links or references from one document to another. Applications can resolve these references to access the related data. Broadly, these are normalized data models.
https://docs.mongodb.com/manual/core/data-modeling-introduction/#references
This will of course not check any referential integrity. You need to handle "dead links" on your side (application level).