This link explains where you're going wrong:
Place the definition of your constructors, destructors methods and whatnot in your header file, and that will correct the problem.
This offers another solution:
How can I avoid linker errors with my template functions?
However this requires you to anticipate how your template will be used and, as a general solution, is counter-intuitive. It does solve the corner case though where you develop a template to be used by some internal mechanism, and you want to police the manner in which it is used.