[c#] SQL update statement in C#

I dont want to use like this

That is the syntax for Update statement in SQL, you have to use that syntax otherwise you will get the exception.

command.Text = "UPDATE Student SET Address = @add, City = @cit Where FirstName = @fn AND LastName = @ln";

and then add your parameters accordingly.

command.Parameters.AddWithValue("@ln", lastName);
command.Parameters.AddWithValue("@fn", firstName);
command.Parameters.AddWithValue("@add", address);
command.Parameters.AddWithValue("@cit", city);