Many ways to skin this cat. I put a simple function in each table's package...
function exists( id_in in yourTable.id%type ) return boolean is
res boolean := false;
begin
for c1 in ( select 1 from yourTable where id = id_in and rownum = 1 ) loop
res := true;
exit; -- only care about one record, so exit.
end loop;
return( res );
end exists;
Makes your checks really clean...
IF pkg.exists(someId) THEN
...
ELSE
...
END IF;