Another option, very late in coming, sorry:
http://www.architectshack.com/TextFileEncodingDetector.ashx
This small C#-only class uses BOMS if present, tries to auto-detect possible unicode encodings otherwise, and falls back if none of the Unicode encodings is possible or likely.
It sounds like UTF8Checker referenced above does something similar, but I think this is slightly broader in scope - instead of just UTF8, it also checks for other possible Unicode encodings (UTF-16 LE or BE) that might be missing a BOM.
Hope this helps someone!