It seems that ARM64 was created by Apple and AARCH64 by the others, most notably GNU/GCC guys.
After some googling I found this link:
The LLVM 64-bit ARM64/AArch64 Back-Ends Have Merged
So it makes sense, iPad calls itself ARM64, as Apple is using LLVM, and Edge uses AARCH64, as Android is using GNU GCC toolchain.