[mysql] How to avoid mysql 'Deadlock found when trying to get lock; try restarting transaction'

cron is dangerous. If one instance of cron fails to finish before the next is due, they are likely to fight each other.

It would be better to have a continuously running job that would delete some rows, sleep some, then repeat.

Also, INDEX(datetime) is very important for avoiding deadlocks.

But, if the datetime test includes more than, say, 20% of the table, the DELETE will do a table scan. Smaller chunks deleted more often is a workaround.

Another reason for going with smaller chunks is to lock fewer rows.

Bottom line:

  • INDEX(datetime)
  • Continually running task -- delete, sleep a minute, repeat.
  • To make sure that the above task has not died, have a cron job whose sole purpose is to restart it upon failure.

Other deletion techniques: http://mysql.rjweb.org/doc.php/deletebig