[sql-server] Cause of a process being a deadlock victim

The answers here are worth a try, but you should also review your code. Specifically have a read of Polyfun's answer here: How to get rid of deadlock in a SQL Server 2005 and C# application?

It explains the concurrency issue, and how the usage of "with (updlock)" in your queries might correct your deadlock situation - depending really on exactly what your code is doing. If your code does follow this pattern, this is likely a better fix to make, before resorting to dirty reads, etc.