What you may want to do is include a script on all pages that does the following ... 1. find the youtube-iframe : searching for it by width and height by title or by finding www.youtube.com in its source. You can do that by ... - looping through the window.frames by a for-in loop and then filter out by the properties
inject jscript in the iframe of the current page adding the onYoutubePlayerReady must-include-function http://shazwazza.com/post/Injecting-JavaScript-into-other-frames.aspx
Add the event listeners etc..
Hope this helps