var ref = $('#example').DataTable();
ref.ajax.reload();
If you want to add a reload/refresh button to DataTables 1.10 then use drawCallback.
See example below (I am using DataTables with bootstrap css)
var ref= $('#hldy_tbl').DataTable({
"responsive": true,
"processing":true,
"serverSide":true,
"ajax":{
"url":"get_hotels.php",
"type":"POST"
},
"drawCallback": function( settings ) {
$('<li><a onclick="refresh_tab()" class="fa fa-refresh"></a></li>').prependTo('div.dataTables_paginate ul.pagination');
}
});
function refresh_tab(){
ref.ajax.reload();
}