Hi first of all i would like you to use 'Synaptic Package Manager'. You just need to goto the ubuntu software center and search for synaptic package manager.. The beauty of this is that all the packages you need are easily available here. Second it will automatically configures all your paths. Now install this then search for opencv packages over there if you found the package with the green box then its installed but else the package is not in the right place so you need to reinstall it but from package manager this time. If installed then you can do this only, you just need to fill the OpenCV_DIR variable with the path of opencv (containing the OpenCVConfig.cmake file)
export OpenCV_DIR=<path_of_opencv>