I wrote small function for myself that works recursively in Postgres 9.4. I had same problem (good they did solve some of this headache in Postgres 9.5). Anyway here is the function (I hope it works well for you):
CREATE OR REPLACE FUNCTION jsonb_update(val1 JSONB,val2 JSONB)
RETURNS JSONB AS $$
DECLARE
result JSONB;
v RECORD;
BEGIN
IF jsonb_typeof(val2) = 'null'
THEN
RETURN val1;
END IF;
result = val1;
FOR v IN SELECT key, value FROM jsonb_each(val2) LOOP
IF jsonb_typeof(val2->v.key) = 'object'
THEN
result = result || jsonb_build_object(v.key, jsonb_update(val1->v.key, val2->v.key));
ELSE
result = result || jsonb_build_object(v.key, v.value);
END IF;
END LOOP;
RETURN result;
END;
$$ LANGUAGE plpgsql;
Here is sample use:
select jsonb_update('{"a":{"b":{"c":{"d":5,"dd":6},"cc":1}},"aaa":5}'::jsonb, '{"a":{"b":{"c":{"d":15}}},"aa":9}'::jsonb);
jsonb_update
---------------------------------------------------------------------
{"a": {"b": {"c": {"d": 15, "dd": 6}, "cc": 1}}, "aa": 9, "aaa": 5}
(1 row)
As you can see it analyze deep down and update/add values where needed.