If you add an alert right after the buster code, then the alert will stall the javascript thread, and it will let the page load. This is what StackOverflow does, and it busts out of my iframes, even when I use the frame busting buster. It also worked with my simple test page. This has only been tested in Firefox 3.5 and IE7 on windows.
Code:
<script type="text/javascript">
if (top != self){
top.location.replace(self.location.href);
alert("for security reasons bla bla bla");
}
</script>