[c++] How do I build a graphical user interface in C++?

Given the comment of "say Windows XP as an example", then your options are:

  • Interact directly with the operating system via its API, which for Microsoft Windows is surprise surprise call Windows API. The definitive reference for the WinAPI is Microsoft's MSDN website. A popular online beginner tutorial for that is theForger's Win32 API Programming Tutorial. The classic book for that is Charles Petzold's Programming Windows, 5th Edition.

  • Use a platform (both in terms of OS and compiler) specific library such as MFC, which wraps the WinAPI into C++ class. The reference for that is again MSDN. A classic book for that is Jeff Prosise's Programming Windows with MFC, 2nd Edition. If you are using say CodeGear C++ Builder, then the option here is VCL.

  • Use a cross platform library such as GTK+ (C++ wrapper: gtkmm), Qt, wxWidgets, or FLTK that wrap the specific OS's API. The advantages with these are that in general, your program could been compiled for different OS without having to change the source codes. As have already been mentioned, they each have its own strengths and weaknesses. One consideration when selecting which one to use is its license. For the examples given, GTK+ & gtkmm is license under LGPL, Qt is under various licenses including proprietary option, wxWidgets is under its own wxWindows Licence (with a rename to wxWidgets Licence), and FLTK is under LGPL with exception. For reference, tutorial, and or books, refer to each one's website for details.