I had a similar problem - essentially I was getting a NPE in an async task after the user had destroyed the activity. After researching the problem on Stack Overflow, I adopted the following solution:
volatile boolean running;
public void onActivityCreated (Bundle savedInstanceState) {
super.onActivityCreated(savedInstanceState);
running=true;
...
}
public void onDestroy() {
super.onDestroy();
running=false;
...
}
Then, I check "if running" periodically in my async code. I have stress tested this and I am now unable to "break" my activity. This works perfectly and has the advantage of being simpler than some of the solutions I have seen on SO.