I tried serkan's solution, it found java 7's location on OS X Mavericks.
it is resided in "/Library/Java/JavaVirtualMachines/jdk1.7.0_51.jdk/"
but to make it the default JDK I had to set JAVA_HOME system variable in .bash_profile in home directory to "/Library/Java/JavaVirtualMachines/jdk1.7.0_51.jdk/Contents/Home/"
so its up and running now thanks to serkan's idea