you can use unlink
to remove the symlink.
For Example:
cd ~/projects/node-redis
npm link
cd ~/projects/node-bloggy
npm link redis # links to your local redis
To reinstall from your package.json:
npm unlink redis
npm install
https://www.tachyonstemplates.com/npm-cheat-sheet/#unlinking-a-npm-package-from-an-application