On Vista, you do need elevated privileges to use the -b option with netstat. To get around that, you could run "netstat -ano" which will show all open ports along with the associated process id. You could then use tasklist to lookup which process has the corresponding id.
C:\>netstat -ano
Active Connections
Proto Local Address Foreign Address State PID
...
TCP [::]:49335 [::]:0 LISTENING 1056
...
C:\>tasklist /fi "pid eq 1056"
Image Name PID Session Name Session# Mem Usage
========================= ======== ================ =========== ============
sqlservr.exe 1056 Services 0 66,192 K