I know this is an old post, but perhaps this solution can be usefull when you want to retrieve the IP address and TCP port from a Shared Memory connection (e.g. from a script run in SSMS locally on the server). The key is to open a secondary connection to your SQL Server using OPENROWSET, in which you specify 'tcp:' in your connection string. The rest of the code is merely building dynamic SQL to get around OPENROWSET’s limitation of not being able to take variables as its parameters.
DECLARE @ip_address varchar(15)
DECLARE @tcp_port int
DECLARE @connectionstring nvarchar(max)
DECLARE @parm_definition nvarchar(max)
DECLARE @command nvarchar(max)
SET @connectionstring = N'Server=tcp:' + @@SERVERNAME + ';Trusted_Connection=yes;'
SET @parm_definition = N'@ip_address_OUT varchar(15) OUTPUT
, @tcp_port_OUT int OUTPUT';
SET @command = N'SELECT @ip_address_OUT = a.local_net_address,
@tcp_port_OUT = a.local_tcp_port
FROM OPENROWSET(''SQLNCLI''
, ''' + @connectionstring + '''
, ''SELECT local_net_address
, local_tcp_port
FROM sys.dm_exec_connections
WHERE session_id = @@spid
'') as a'
EXEC SP_executeSQL @command
, @parm_definition
, @ip_address_OUT = @ip_address OUTPUT
, @tcp_port_OUT = @tcp_port OUTPUT;
SELECT @ip_address, @tcp_port