[http] Why is an OPTIONS request sent and can I disable it?

There is maybe a solution (but i didnt test it) : you could use CSP (Content Security Policy) to enable your remote domain and browsers will maybe skip the CORS OPTIONS request verification.

I if find some time, I will test that and update this post !

CSP : https://developer.mozilla.org/fr/docs/Web/HTTP/Headers/Content-Security-Policy

CSP Specification : https://www.w3.org/TR/CSP/