[jms] ActiveMQ or RabbitMQ or ZeroMQ or

More information than you would want to know:

http://wiki.secondlife.com/wiki/Message_Queue_Evaluation_Notes


UPDATE

Just elaborating what Paul added in comment. The page mentioned above is dead after 2010, so read with a pinch of salt. Lot of stuff has been been changed in 3 years.

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