Most modern RDBMSs support the INFORMATION_SCHEMA
schema. If yours supports that, then you want either INFORMATION_SCHEMA.TABLE_CONSTRAINTS
or INFORMATION_SCHEMA.KEY_COLUMN_USAGE
, or maybe both.
To see if yours supports it is as simple as running
select count(*) from INFORMATION_SCHEMA.TABLE_CONSTRAINTS
EDIT: SQL Server does have INFORMATION_SCHEMA
, and it's easier to use than their vendor-specific tables, so just go with it.