After experimenting for a few hours I figured it out.
<% if @user.errors.full_messages.any? %>
<% @user.errors.full_messages.each do |error_message| %>
<%= error_message if @user.errors.full_messages.first == error_message %> <br />
<% end %>
<% end %>
Even better:
<%= @user.errors.full_messages.first if @user.errors.any? %>