If the object is created not via a pointer(for example,A a1 = A();),the destructor is called when the object is destructed, always when the function where the object lies is finished.for example:
void func()
{
...
A a1 = A();
...
}//finish
the destructor is called when code is execused to line "finish".
If the object is created via a pointer(for example,A * a2 = new A();),the destructor is called when the pointer is deleted(delete a2;).If the point is not deleted by user explictly or given a new address before deleting it, the memory leak is occured. That is a bug.
In a linked list, if we use std::list<>, we needn't care about the desctructor or memory leak because std::list<> has finished all of these for us. In a linked list written by ourselves, we should write the desctructor and delete the pointer explictly.Otherwise, it will cause memory leak.
We rarely call a destructor manually. It is a function providing for the system.
Sorry for my poor English!