1- create a file in the project root call it settings.js
2- inside this file add this code
module.exports = {
POST_MAX_SIZE : 40 , //MB
UPLOAD_MAX_FILE_SIZE: 40, //MB
PROJECT_DIR : __dirname
};
3- inside node_modules create a new module name it "settings" and inside the module index.js write this code:
module.exports = require("../../settings");
4- and any time you want your project directory just use
var settings = require("settings");
settings.PROJECT_DIR;
in this way you will have all project directories relative to this file ;)